It will be a miracle if Jami and Kirk don't get kicked out of their apartment tomorrow. Hell, it will be a miracle if Kirk doesn't end up back in jail before the night is over. Kirk called me saying that they were fighting and that Jami wouldn't stop so he was going to leave before the police got there but then I listened to them fight for another ten minutes at least, very loud. Jami was on a rant demanding he get on his knees and apologize for whatever he had said to piss her off and he was refusing and would just get kicked in the teeth or something if he did. She had him by the hair during most of what I heard but as always trying to make it sound to me like he was somehow the one keeping the fight going and abusing her. I spoke to her briefly after Kirk tried to hand her the phone and she wouldn't take it by hanging up and calling back and she answered. I told her she had to cool it and she said it was too hard and went right back to screaming at Kirk demanding he bow before her and accusing him of not loving her and all the usual things she says during these fits. I hung up again after not being able to get her attention and she called right back and said, "OK It's over I'm going to sleep." To which I replied, "Do you know you likely just lost your apartment?" and she actually asked "Why?" When I said it would be for the fighting noise that is forbidden she acted like I was kicking them out and said Fine and hung up.
I think the fight tonight isn't that unusual still for them, the management said something to us about them not fighting any more when we paid the rent last time and their fighting is why no one wanted them to stay with them when they lost their last apartment. Jami just has to blow up like this from time to time and always has beaten every serious boyfriend or husband she has had. BUT this tonight is likely fueled in somehow by her making contact with her children again recently. I just feel that one in the gut.
When they get evicted from there I can't help them find another place. I don't think there is another apartment for rent for that price that they can get into. Jami needs so much mental help as well as withdrawn off of drugs but one has fed the other for so long uncontrolled that it seems hopeless. She is totally unaware most of the time that there is something very wrong with her having always blamed others for these incidents so she is not going to seek or accept help.
I think the fight tonight isn't that unusual still for them, the management said something to us about them not fighting any more when we paid the rent last time and their fighting is why no one wanted them to stay with them when they lost their last apartment. Jami just has to blow up like this from time to time and always has beaten every serious boyfriend or husband she has had. BUT this tonight is likely fueled in somehow by her making contact with her children again recently. I just feel that one in the gut.
When they get evicted from there I can't help them find another place. I don't think there is another apartment for rent for that price that they can get into. Jami needs so much mental help as well as withdrawn off of drugs but one has fed the other for so long uncontrolled that it seems hopeless. She is totally unaware most of the time that there is something very wrong with her having always blamed others for these incidents so she is not going to seek or accept help.
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