I am waiting on a call from child support enforcement to get Jami a court date set or make arrangements to pay or something to get her out.
Jami told me that the judge told her that she had lost all parental rights and that the girls were "adopted out" during the divorce and also that he told her about things that were said about her during the proceedings, she says by Mikey or his family, that greatly upset her. I emailed Mike about it and he called back pretty quick and denied all of it and I do believe that he didn't intend to do this if it was done. He also said that he had not said bad things about Jami and that he still had a lot of feelings for her and that he hadn't given up on them working things out someday. That knocked me for a loop. I emailed Mikey nd told him that I knew that Jami, too, hoped that they would get together again someday and haven't heard any more from him. I didn't tell him what I think about it yet.
Even if they love each other still, how can they live together with the way his family feels about Jami??? Mikey and the girls are very close with his family. PLUS it would mean Jami living in Minnesota among all of them without even me for support. Yes, it would be wonderful for the girls to have both of their parents but I just don't see how it could ever be a happily ever after. And I want happily ever after for all of them.
Jami told me that the judge told her that she had lost all parental rights and that the girls were "adopted out" during the divorce and also that he told her about things that were said about her during the proceedings, she says by Mikey or his family, that greatly upset her. I emailed Mike about it and he called back pretty quick and denied all of it and I do believe that he didn't intend to do this if it was done. He also said that he had not said bad things about Jami and that he still had a lot of feelings for her and that he hadn't given up on them working things out someday. That knocked me for a loop. I emailed Mikey nd told him that I knew that Jami, too, hoped that they would get together again someday and haven't heard any more from him. I didn't tell him what I think about it yet.
Even if they love each other still, how can they live together with the way his family feels about Jami??? Mikey and the girls are very close with his family. PLUS it would mean Jami living in Minnesota among all of them without even me for support. Yes, it would be wonderful for the girls to have both of their parents but I just don't see how it could ever be a happily ever after. And I want happily ever after for all of them.
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