Thursday, March 12, 2026

Still don't get it

 The things Jami blew this up over are just really stupid.  She Knew we had to clear and clean the basement.  The last time she was here,  before this explosion,  I was in the basement when she came in and I showed her that I was bagging and labeling the bags.  She left shortly after and never came back for the clean up.  She rented a storage unit and still didn't come to clear out the things she had left. Wait. First she said that she wasn't going to need a storage because she and Mike had an apartment for the next 5 years. Which sounded fake, but whatever.  Then she rented a storage. I figured an apartment had a fridge, and the one down in out basement was actually Lindsey's, so I said Kira or Jess could have it.  Then Jami said she was coming to get it.  And asked Jess to bake Mike a birthday cake. ! . Jess did say yes since she hates to say No. She will bake a cake for a man she hates just to keep peace with Jami. But when I told Jami she couldn't have Lindsey's fridge she got pissed and said that without getting the fridge she couldn't come to get Mike's cake. ? . Then Rizzo texts asking for "her" TV. I of course told him NO. Then she showed up here with Rizzo 10:30 at night.  She was in the basement before I knew she was here.  I had told her that we were sorting, packing her things for her but I guess the reality of that was somehow a surprise that Pissed Her Off. She sits here 2 years wallowing in filth, contributes almost no money,  but always is Going To Pay. She did get the drain down there working.  She and Mike tore Kira's car apart and left it in pieces.  She smoked meth down there All The Time. She was a nightmare to have in the house,  has been for 20 years, but she feels entitled to leaving this house trashed and getting mad when we clean it. Mad about Her Things. All of which used to be other people's things. How does a homeless, unemployed person have So Mucb Stuff?? I didn't find Jasmine's shirt but I sure found other things that she had no right to have.  Is she angry she is caught out in that? A lot of it looks like hoarding. I don't know but it is a nightmare down there.  I had to clean a pile of MAGGOTS on the dresser!! They went all down the back am on the floor!! SO GROSS!!! But, there wasn't going to be a War. We were carefully putting everything that we thought she might want around the bed to be packed and stored for her. I told her that. What did she do?? She took the cords to Jeremy's TV!!! Why?? Just to start the this. Just to be a Super Bitch. But, again, WHY. Why not leave things at least friendly? Why not be happy we weren't just throwing all her crap away like she deserves?? Now No One wanted to continue to try to save anything for her.  

We always think Jami has committed the ultimate crime and won't be forgiven but somehow she always works her way back in. And it hasn't been subtle.  She will show up beat half to death in the rain and get let in. She will call in the middle of the night from the middle of no where.  She will just be in the house when I come home.  She fractured my neck and broke my nose and stands in this house declaring that she has never done anything to hurt me.  We all just stared at her.  Robby had heard the story from Jeanette and after Jami left the room he asked if his mom had the story right.  Does Jaamu really erase the things she does?? She really needs to lay in the bed she has made while she blames everyone else for her mistakes.  Maybe realize she is entitled to nothing here.  Maybe learn to be grateful Jeremy let her use his Roku TV instead of pissed that it hadn't become hers.  I don't think I'll live to see her try too come back and if Jeanette lives here I don't know what she will get.  Nett says she will build Jami's shed but, even if she did,  it really won't be liveable for long.  Certainly not thru winter. I can't look at this.  I can't stress over what goes on after I'm gone.  I'll be Done here.  Whatever comes next,  I will be done Here.  Sometimes that doesn't sound bad at all.  

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